This meeting is always sudden. We are scared, disgusting, ashamed. Such strong emotions can cause us a serious injury. Therefore, you will have to learn to resist the maniac and teach children this. Our story.
I sat, composed a column about the end of the school year, and then the eldest daughter called me, who at this historical moment is on an internship in Italy. Once in broad daylight it calls-something happened, for we
live in the regime of rigid economy, we only contact the evenings on Skype. The 21-year-old crumbs, unimposedly and small in the tube, I managed to give a lot of interesting things, but in essence the plot turned out to be banalen: I was not ready to meet with an exhibitionist.
“Well, what are you burning,” I say. – After all, in your life there were already such stories?”
“Yeah,” Kroshka cried, “that’s the point, all the more offensive, like no longer a child, it could have already been understood,! He seemed to me completely normal, such a decent, adult uncle, over 45 years old, asked to help him rearrange the number of watches – they say, the wheel is too small, and his fingers are awkward. I say: let’s try, began to twist, he moved close to me, and here. “
Well, further (almost) every woman can imagine the development of events. I told the baby to wash, calm down, and be sure to go “straight line” and buy that orange dress on the sale that she looked at. Shoping is the best medicine for a young upset girl.
And I postponed the text about the academic year, turning my bitterness and anger towards this, in general, not the most interesting and rather mundane problem. I repeat, there is hardly a woman among our readers who did not have to face this type of sexual deviation, especially in childhood.
You can talk for a long time about the nature of this disorder, that they distinguish between “true” exhibitionism (when a person for different reasons is not able to resist the desire to demonstrate his genitals) and “false” (relatively speaking, controlled), “shameless mischief” -Your child does not care, as it is called and what is due, and such a meeting can cause a deep injury.
Therefore, you need to somehow decide for yourself-whether to tell your children in advance what happens and that you don’t have to be afraid of it, or do not run ahead of the steam locomotive, and when (and if) it happens, then explain “upon request”.
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